I think every man out there will agree with the truths being spoken by this angel of a woman, "Holly Hill" (I wish I could find out her real name; she deserves praise far beyond anything I can provide with a simple blog post). Ms. Hill is a former professional "other woman"; she made arrangements with several men who agreed to be her sugar daddies in return for her companionship. She has now written a book based on her experiences, and sat down with MSN for an interview about why men in relationships cheat. A few examples of her unfiltered and uncompromisingly accurate assessment of men, women, and infidelity:"I would say 100 percent of men cannot be mentally monogamous, in that they are biologically programmed to assess the sexual attractiveness of every single woman they see."
"The introduction of sexual exclusivity to marriage was originally intended to ensure inheritances stay within families — given that the modern Will and Testament is more than adequate for this task, monogamy is no longer relevant."
"I suspect the most important thing to remember is that a man is probably only cheating [for sex] and it has absolutely nothing to do with you. Cheating men still love their wives — they just can't resist a second slice of chocolate cake. Also remember the other woman is probably very normal. We imagine other lovers to be prettier, or thinner or better dressed than us, but there aren't too many supermodels out there looking for sugar daddies. If [you find your man is cheating] and you can harness your jealousy, arrange to meet the woman — you might be able to work together to make your man the happiest guy in the world. What a wonderful thing to do for someone you love."
Ms. Hill, Crooked Straight salutes you. If you ever want to sit down for a one-on-one interview (maybe over a candlelit dinner), don't hesitate to call.
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